I’m Valerie. Mother of 2. Wife. Daughter. Friend. Community member. And a supporter of exhausted, resentful moms.

I teach moms how to get it all done because nobody should feel like they’re failing at motherhood.

I believe that moms do too much. Society tells moms that it’s their job to create magical childhoods for their kids, keep their kids busy with sports, music, and other activities, and that it’s all on them to make this happen. Then, we feel like we’re failing when we can’t live up to these ridiculous expectations.

I’m calling bull$%^ on this. You are not failing. The system is rigged.

We can do better as a society to support moms and families.

My mission is to help moms learn how to prioritize their endless lists and create time to focus on their own goals.

Because I’ve been there. I’ve realized that I’m crossing tasks off my list that don’t belong there. 

I still have long to-do lists and piles of stuff to deal with. Because I live in reality, other people live in my house, and occasionally I want to put my feet up and watch my latest favorite TV show.

I also know how to assess what needs to happen today and whether these tasks belong on my list because they make sense for my current season of life.

I don’t believe in productivity hacks or your regular white guy with a wife at home productivity system.

I believe in making a system work for you and your life. I believe that we can do this differently than what society is telling us.

And I’m here to help you figure this out, too.

Together, we can rebalance our household tasks. We can get our families involved. We can evaluate what we’re doing and why. We can start leaning into our values as guiding principles. Not doing what society tells us we should be doing. 

Want to learn more? Start here.

Are you ready? Let’s talk.