Do you have such high expectations of yourself that you feel like you are never living up to them?
That you are constantly striving for perfection and it’s never enough?
Maybe you spend time late at night cleaning the house so it’s organized and clean all the time.
Or you stay up late perfecting a report for work, a presentation you’re giving, or an email you need to send a client.
Maybe you worry that you’re not doing enough for your kids. That they’re not in the right activities that are going to get them in to the right college.
And you feel like it’s never enough and that you are failing every day.
It seems like if we don’t meet our expectations, we question ourselves, not the expectations.
When maybe it’s our expectations that are the problem.
I think it’s society that’s setting us up for failure.
One of the things I focus on in my client work is designing a life that you want. Not living like society or social media tells you.
But focusing on what’s important to you and your family.
Instead of striving for some version of perfect that society is telling you to strive for, clarify your own version of success.
What are your goals? And what small step can you take today to move toward them?
What short-term tasks can you let go of to focus on a long-term goal? It might be letting the laundry sit for another day while you do some research on spending a summer in a foreign country. It could be hiring someone to deep clean your house once a month so you can spend time hiking with your family.
Ask yourself if the world will stop spinning if the task isn’t done perfectly. I’m guessing the answer is no. So maybe good enough or done is OK.
Don’t waste your days living someone else’s life!
Define your own success!
If you’re ready to figure this out in your own life, schedule a Get On Track call.